Trust is a form of reliance or having confidence in something or someone. Where’s your confidence at? Who do you trust? What or who do you have confidence in? Do you have confidence in yourself or someone else? Just now, I asked a set of people who they could actually trust, they gave me a chorus answer – “Nobody!”.
Just so you know, zero trust equal average love. An average love is as good as zero love cause it’s conditional and selfish. No wonder the world is filled with jilters. I spend most of my time around ladies and this is the usual story – “Guys are crazy and stupid. They always end up breaking our trust”. Sometimes, when I’m around the guys , they say stuffs like – “How can I trust her? She might have a side boo”.
Who can we blame for this catastrophe? No one but ourselves. The issue of trust is a very deep one, and even in the world of business, investors want to trust their business partners at least to a significant degree.
What I’m I trying to say to you? Well, I’m not advocating that you surrender your soul to others or totally rely on someone else. I only have one question for you – “Do you trust yourself?” . How confident are you in yourself? Can you rely totally on your instincts? You see, we all need to quit complaining about the way people treat us. The way people treat us is as a result of how we treat ourselves. What does that even mean? Simply put, we need to start taking full responsibility for everything that happens in our lives.
We need to quit complaining and handle our mess. You need to have full confidence or trust in yourself that you can handle every mishap that appears! A business man trust the signals that his instincts send to him especially when he is about to sign up for a deal. You don’t have control over other people, but you have control over one person – YOU.
Would you rather trust you or the external folk? You need to fully trust yourself or your judgement in every aspect of your life. Listen to your heart. If you feel (by instinct) that this is the right partner or right deal – Do it! Whatever the outcome is, you have to KNOW that you did nothing but put your confidence in yourself or judgement. One last question – “Would you rather trust your heart or someone else’s vibe?”. Having trust issues with others is not the issue. The issue is NOT them, the issue is YOU.
Trust The Man In The Mirror To Make The Right Choices!