I’m just going to hit straight to the point here , this article is going to reveal to you the unnecessary places you channel your energy and why it’s hurting you. I remember having a discussion with some lads and one of them said – “I always make sure everyone that I meet likes me”. Immediately, I knew he was attached to pleasing everybody. He was a slave! Although, he was fun to be with, but I knew without doubt that he wasn’t going to hit anywhere close to his true potential. I knew for sure that sooner or later , he would realize his mistake and regret how much time he has wasted trying to please the INSATIABLE creatures. Does this sound like you? Always caring about people’s craps? I don’t know about the rest of the world, but , I know this about myself – Each time I fail to give a hundred percent focus on whatever it is I’m doing , I put the whole thing at risk. Thus, I pay very very little attention to unnecessary things. I’m completely focused on my sh*t. Pay attention to this ;

  1. You don’t have to make everyone like you. By the way, that’s an impossible mission!
  2. You don’t have to pay attention to grudges.
  3. You don’t have to pay attention to naysayers or doubters.
  4. You don’t have to force yourself on people.
  5. You don’t have to KNOW everything. That’s impossible too but I’ve seen one or two people obsess about that.
  6. You don’t have to wait. Just do it!
  7. You don’t have to be perfect. Nobody is.
  8. You don’t have to impress anyone.
  9. You don’t have to prove your worth to anyone. If you’re good enough, your achievements would speak for themselves!
  10. You don’t have to make excuses. Just shut up!
  11. You don’t have to help people that aren’t willing to get help. Don’t diminish the value of your help.
  12. You don’t have to complain. Seek solution!
  13. You don’t have to win everyday. Life is not all rosy , okay?
  14. You don’t have to explain, take action.
  15. You don’t have to revenge , do you believe in karma?
  16. You don’t have to talk, learn from others.
  17. You don’t have to fake it, let people KNOW who you really are.
  18. You don’t have to be the best, give your best always.
  19. You don’t have to be realistic, the word “UNREALISTIC” exists for a reason. How about you find out why?
  20. You don’t have to be normal when you can be extraordinary!
  21. You don’t have to think out of the box, there’s no box!
  22. You don’t have to be like anybody, be YOU.
  23. You don’t have to hate on winners, try to figure out what they’re doing differently ok?

    You don’t have to memorise everything above , you just have to pick a few ones that resonates with you and make a change. Do you know the acronym of the word CHANGE? I’ll help you out with it. A great woman called Irene Martina revealed the acronym of CHANGE in an interview as :

    C – Choose

    H – Happiness

    A – And

    N – New

    G – Growth

    E – Everyday!
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    MR MIH INSPIRATIONS…Beyond Motivation!!!

    Published by Mr Mih Inspirations

    Mr Mih is a certified Chemist, Writer , Content creator, Public speaker, Self-help Coach, Blogger, Editor, Movie Director, and ultimately a Doer . He is the CEO of Mr Mih Inspirations, a body created to help others bring out the light (Potential) in themselves. He is passionate about getting his game to the next level and helping others do the same. His Mantra ; "Attack Or Be Attacked"! Contact @

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