By : Mr Mih…                      



                                           Last night, I was watching a football game (Chelsea vs Watford) ,and unsurprisingly, the winning team (Watford) substituted one of their players.   I was busy enjoying the game as it was thrilling. Suddenly the camera showed the players on the bench of the winning team. Behold! I saw the player that was being substituted crying like a child where he sat. “Why is he crying?”, “But they’re currently winning the match?”, “What’s wrong with him?”, “He played a good game or is he injured?”, I kept asking those questions .  My friends, answered me sharply – “He doesn’t like to be substituted”.  “What?!” , I exclaimed. I kept thinking about this player that was in tears for being on the bench.  I realized that this guy wasn’t just crying, he was crying for his career. He didn’t like being a bench warmer, he didn’t like resting while his mates were ruining their opponent. This guy was literally crying for his passion. He wasn’t crying because he had a bad game, he wasn’t crying because his team was losing, he wasn’t crying because he got injured , he was crying because he was told to go sit on the bench. Are you seeking motivation? Watch the top professional athletes. 


                       Whoever says motivation isn’t important is dumb. Back to our discussion, are you happy being on the bench? Are you happy losing ? Are you happy relaxing while others are killing it? Are you happy being replaced regardless of the reasons? Shame on you! Look, you and I need to start living our lives with more focus and Passion! 

                             I’ve stated it countless times , that if your dreams haven’t made you cry , you’re still joking. I don’t joke with success and I don’t joke with winning and I can tell you this – You’re going to lose and your reactions will tell the wise men around at the time how important success is to you.  I do have a good time , in fact, I do have great times , but when I’m losing, nothing’s funny. It’s funny how I see people lose and still exclaim – “Laugh at your mess!”. That’s a wrong pitch. You should be asking yourself something different – “How did I get myself in a mess?” . When you find an answer to that question, you’ll realize it’s not funny. By the way, if you ever find yourself in a mess and you’re still laughing , it’s two things : 

  1. You’re not in a big enough mess OR
  2. You’re yet to find a Genuine meaning for your life. 

Look, you need to start taking your life serious because it’s your life and you only got one shot at it. Have fun, enjoy life but always remember to have something in your life that you’re willing to die for. If you don’t have something that you’re willing to die for, then,you’ll end up dying anyways! Don’t make losing or falling short an habit. Seek victory and pursue your dreams with enough focus and passion. It isn’t just crying about what you want, it’s about craving it bad. Have a life! 

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Published by Mr Mih Inspirations

Mr Mih is a certified Chemist, Writer , Content creator, Public speaker, Self-help Coach, Blogger, Editor, Movie Director, and ultimately a Doer . He is the CEO of Mr Mih Inspirations, a body created to help others bring out the light (Potential) in themselves. He is passionate about getting his game to the next level and helping others do the same. His Mantra ; "Attack Or Be Attacked"! Contact @

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