By : MR MIH.
I woke up this morning trying to figure out why people quit. Fortunately, I found a genuine answer. If you read the above topic well , it says what? It says ; “Why Do Adults Quit?” . I used the word “ADULT” , intentionally. In my opinion, kids don’t quit. When they want something (No matter how irrelevant what they want seems to appear), they do all they can to get it , and when they don’t ? They seek for help. When you refuse to help or give them what they want? They CRY (fight) till they get what they want. Understandably, kids are denied what they want (by parents or elderly ones) sometimes, but , if you watch closely , kids seldom quit on what they want unlike the adults. Why is this so? Read on.
Why do ADULTS (most) quit? Are they not strong enough or wise enough? Don’t they know what they’re doing or they don’t know what they want? Ofcourse, Adults are smart people – Not all but most. They know what they want. They are physically fit. So why do they quit? In a nutshell, people quit simply because they do NOT gather up enough skills on their intended target. Have you ever been around people who always talk about relationships or who are fascinated with the idea of being in a (romantic) relationship? Such people either read romantic novels a lot, watch romantic movies a lot OR always hang around like minded people. You understand? These romantic or relationship “freaks” are trying to figure it out. They learn i.e develop their skillset in the “relationship lane” and most importantly , they get to implement what they’ve learnt in their relationships. You get it? If people study or try to know so much about relationships, why is the rate of divorce high? By the way, divorce only occurs when two people quit on eachother. There’s a high rate of divorce in marriages simply because there’s a low rate of people gathering enough skills or knowledge on the subject.
Move close to people who have the so-called “happy homes” and you’ll realize they’re people who not only have enough knowledge on the subject , but, they have the right knowledge about “Marriage” – Even before they get married. Ok? You need to KNOW significantly enough on a subject to actually succeed in the field. Ok? People that have genuine financial success definitely KNOW something that broke people don’t , and , yet ,they keep gathering knowledge. So back to our initial question – “Why do adults quit?”. Most people quit simply because they lack curiosity. Kids don’t quit because their sense of curiosity is HIGH. People who quit on a subject or journey are people who have lost their sense of interest and curiosity on such subject or journey. They feel they’ve tried all their possible best on such subject or journey and hence, they feel “stuck”. Everyday, I feel like quitting, but you know what? I ask myself some basic questions. One of those questions is this – “What is it that I’m yet to know , that’s hurting me?”.
This question stirs up my curiosity and sets me up on this “Beautiful” adventure called SUCCESS. You CAN’T quit when your sense of interest in the game is extremely high. You need to scale up your sense of curiosity in order to put yourself back into the game every single day. Learn as much as you can, implement as much as you can, fail as much as you can, go farther than you ever thought you could and don’t add your name to the list of the quitters. Quitters have no place in history – Always remember that. Don’t you dare quit on your dreams , ok? Take a break, feel free to feel the urge to quit but hey never quit! Keep your curiosity level high and hey don’t quit. Enjoy that ride called SUCCESS.