By : Mr Mih
An old saying ; “Misery loves company”.
No need to debate on this ; At some point in your life, people are going to quit on you.
If you look back at your life, you have quit on people and people have quit on you too.
Thus, don’t get so personal when people quit on you – You’ve done the same to others.
In this article, I’m going to give you a couple of reasons why people quit on you and what to do about it.
1. You’re Doing Very Poorly :
On a personal level, I’ve quit on a couple of people because of this – And I don’t feel guilty about it.
My goodness! I’ve had more people quit on me because of this too. It’s a cycle, right?
It doesn’t matter who quit on you as long as you don’t quit on you.
That doesn’t mean you keep up with your poor vibes. Not quitting on you simply means constantly improving on you.
You got to step up your game a notch. Don’t be a crybaby when people quit on you. Sometimes, they could be right. Maybe you suck.
All you have to do is have some sort of Introspection and make a firm decision to up your game.
2. Your Standards Are Too High :
If you’re anything like me, you probably have some giant goals and aspirations.
These aspirations are so freaking huge that many would count it impossible or even irrelevant because they see where you’re at now.
They think you’re fake actually because they only see where you’re currently at and are unable to see where you are going simply because you’re aiming too high.
You don’t have to worry about this, they’re only being myopic.
Your dreams are yours and it is your responsibility to protect them. You owe nobody an explanation about this.
By the way, you don’t have to tell your dreams to anyone.
That reminds me of my previous post about Cristiano Ronaldo. I was moved by one of his quotes ;
“We don’t want to tell our dreams, we want to show them”.
3. They Moved Ahead ;
A lot of people get personal about this. You don’t need to. I like to keep it real.
Some people are going to surge ahead and still look back to pick you up but not everyone is an angel.
By the way, you need to quit imagining that one day, someone is coming to pick you up from your mess.
It rarely happens that way. Have some sense of responsibility and fortitude to make things right in your life. Nobody is coming to save you.
Hey! Quit being resentful of those who surged ahead and go get yours. Remember ; “Abundance is real!”
4. Pure Hate ;
“Haters Are Cowards” – Mr Mih.
I don’t quit on haters, I use them as fuel to drive me forward – I switch their negative energy into an asset.
It’s so easy to hate on what you don’t have.
By the way, haters don’t always hate on what you have physically, some just hate you for no significant reason.
Some just hate you for your vibes and some are just there silently waiting for you to quit or fall.
If you keep doing your thing and keep getting great at it , sooner or later, they’ll quit hating on you and start admiring what you do.
Hate is for losers. Don’t play the loser’s game. You’re better than that. Step up.
5. Unintentional Swings :
Some individuals just forgets about you. It ain’t because you are a bad person. They could be going through a lot. You have no idea.
It could also be as a result of you NOT being charismatic or supportive enough when they were around you.
Thus, they quit on you (Unintentionally) cos they forgot about you.
By the way, if you want a number of those people who forgot about you to remember you, get so freaking successful that they get to see and hear your name everywhere they go.
Conclusion :
It’s a normal phenomenon on planet earth. People are going to move on and quit on each other. It’s nothing personal.
You probably had some friends ten years ago and you hardly hear from them today.
They quit on you or you quit on them (Consciously or unconscious).
It doesn’t matter who quits on you and why. Suck it up and go create a great life.
Remember ; “Success is the best revenge” – Elena Cardone
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