By : Mr Mih (Make It Happen)
“27 missed calls!”
Mercy yelled as her eyes bulged!
“What! Who could that be?”
Mercy looked to unlock her phone.
As soon as she unlocked her phone,
She hissed with passion.
It was the guy that asked for her number earlier that day.
He had the intention to date her.
Mercy could smell it but She gave him her number anyways.
Now, she’s in regrets.
“This is a complete turn off. Unacceptable!”
Mercy soliloquized in an angry tone.
Before Mercy could gather her thoughts, her phone rang again.
It was the same guy.
Mercy picked up ;
“Hi”, Mercy tried to control her anger.
“Hey beautiful, it’s Andrew, I’ve missed you already. I just wanted to say” hi” and get to know you better and I think we should……..”
Mercy cut the call and was extremely angry now.
” Wanted to say “Hi” with 27 missed call? That’s terrifying!”
Without hesitation, Mercy blocked his line.
What’s the point of the above story?
One word – Desperation.
You have to quit acting desperate.
It’s OK to be fully committed to something.
There’s a clear difference between commitment and desperation.
Commitment comprises of stability and confidence.
Desperation carries neediness and impatience.
Desperation is cheap.
Once people sniff out the “desperate” character in you, they bounce.
You lose your charm and that’s bad for you.
You’ll never get what you want with a desperate vibe.
So what? Be willing to walk away from a deal.
That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give your 100%.
It means ; When you’re yet to get what you want, you should keep your composure.
If it’s for you, it will find its way to you.
Have an abundance mindset.
Give your everything but never lose your cool.
No need to act needy and definitely, no need to act desperate.
What do you think?
What else do you think turns people off ?
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